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Khi Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y h\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u1ea5y n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 h\u1eafn \u0111\u01a1n l\u1ebb. Sau ba ng\u00e0y quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o, Ng\u00e0i l\u1ea5y x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a h\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean h\u00ecnh v\u00f3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. Ng\u00e0i cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n x\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ecbt c\u1ee7a h\u1eafn th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau l\u1eafm; h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi nhau, n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u1edbi nhau, s\u1ebd t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau l\u1eafm, s\u1ebd mu\u00f4n n\u0103m h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh, s\u1ebd tr\u0103m n\u0103m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 ti\u00ean \u0111o\u00e1n n\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1nh h\u1ecde m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay kh\u00f4ng? Hay l\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea1t! D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i than phi\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng \u0103n nh\u1eb1m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m g\u00ec t\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng t\u1eeb m\u1eabu, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb bi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t Nam! \u00d4i c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t Nam tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Vi\u1ec7t Nam x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi soi chung, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea9m c\u00e0 l\u1ea9m c\u1ea9m nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u h\u00e1t trong b\u00e0i “Kh\u1ecfe V\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc”; c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 “…trai n\u01b0\u1edbc Vi\u1ec7t ph\u1ea3i n\u00eau \u0111\u00e8n s\u00e1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u1eafm chung” m\u00e0 th\u1eddi ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e1t m\u00ea man m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n!<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o, \u0111\u1eafng cay th\u00ec \u00ea h\u1ec1! H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00f4i th\u1ea5t \u0111i\u00ean b\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea3o, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i upside down; su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i vui \u00edt bu\u1ed3n nhi\u1ec1u! T\u00f4i ng\u00e1n ng\u1ea9m, t\u00f4i lo s\u1ee3\u2026 cho n\u00ean, “\u0110\u00e3 t\u1eeb l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng trong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00eam, mang n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ean. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec1 m\u00e2y h\u1eb9n gi\u00f3; t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e1nh xa cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0”<\/em>! Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb, chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! \u00d4ng tr\u1eddi ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1eafc c\u1edb th\u00edch l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi! Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7u xin kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 h\u1ec5 gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf, ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb th\u00ec l\u1ea1i cho ngay. T\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eeba kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 tr\u00e9o c\u1eb3ng ng\u1ed7ng, d\u1ee1 kh\u00f3c d\u1ee1 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u00e2u ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef, “Gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a n\u00e0o tr\u1eddi trao c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f3”!<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i, “B\u1ed7ng m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m t\u00f4i v\u1edbi n\u00e0ng quen bi\u1ebft nhau<\/em>“… l\u1ea1i kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i, ngu thi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ngu v\u00ec… “t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng th\u1ea7m mang ni\u1ec1m nh\u1edb!<\/em>” \u00d4i con tim qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 l\u00fd l\u1ebd ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft gia ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc khi c\u00f2n l\u1edbp \u0110\u1ec7 Nh\u1ecb, \u0110\u1ec7 Nh\u1ea5t (Le coeur \u00e0 ses raisons, que la raison ne conna\u00eet pas). Nh\u01b0ng qua nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1edbn \u0111au c\u0169 “t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e1nh nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n qu\u00ean nh\u1edb c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n xa nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n\u2026 h\u1ee1i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u01a1i!<\/em>” T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ngu d\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft “\u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m \u0111au, \u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdc ng\u00e0 tr\u0103ng sao nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con dao l\u00e0m tim nh\u1ecf m\u00e1u.”<\/em> \u0110\u00e0n b\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec k\u1ef3 b\u00ed kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f3 ti\u00ean \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1eafc ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft. “\u00d4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 d\u1ecbu ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u00eam qua, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng \u0111\u00eam nay, \u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 say, n\u1ed1t nh\u1ea1c chua cay!”<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i xua tay t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i ng\u00e1n ng\u1ea9m, t\u00f4i kinh nghi\u1ec7m, t\u00f4i d\u1ea1i kh\u1edd, t\u00f4i ch\u1ecbu h\u1ebft n\u1ed5i; t\u00f4i than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, t\u00f4i ch\u00e1n c\u1ea3 \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 ph\u1ea1m l\u0103n x\u1ea3 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta! T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1eafm b\u00f9a ph\u00e9p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng nghi\u1ec7t oan c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ebf sao kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t? C\u1ee9 h\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i va \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 nguy\u1ec7n xa l\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 qu\u00ean b\u1ecf t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00e3 bao l\u1ea7n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0103n n\u0103n, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Th\u00f4i “v\u0129nh bi\u1ec7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/em>” ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec “th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fat t\u00ecnh n\u01a1i x\u1ee9 xa, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng em s\u1ebd qu\u00ean<\/em>” ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh “mu\u00f4n ki\u1ebfp bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i s\u1ea7u nh\u1edb!<\/em>” T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u mu\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng mong ch\u1edd nh\u01b0ng “em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i, em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi, \u00f4i th\u1ebf nh\u00e2n, \u00f4i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u2026 h\u1ee1i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u01a1i!<\/em>“<\/p>\n

M\u00f9a Noel l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111em ni\u1ec1m vui cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, Ch\u00faa \u01a1i Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a th\u00ec xin Ch\u00faa m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i, cho l\u0169 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u00fang con \u00edt thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3i, hay l\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111em l\u1eddi v\u00e0ng ng\u1ecdc khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd gi\u00f9m. Xin Ch\u00faa th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a l\u0169 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u00fang con, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang con nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang con c\u0169ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecd; xin Ch\u00faa rao gi\u1ea3ng cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u0169 ch\u00fang con tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf \u0110\u1ea5ng To\u00e0n N\u0103ng Ng\u00e0i “y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta.” Hay l\u00e0 xin Ch\u00faa c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i linh h\u1ed3n ch\u00fang con, xin cho ch\u00fang con kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 d\u1eef. Amen!<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang con s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u0169 thi v\u0103n nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 ch\u00fang con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i v\u0103n m\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00e0, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 hay, n\u1ed1t nh\u1ea1c chua cay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! Ch\u00faa c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00ean t\u1eeb bi th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u00f9m cho s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng shopping center r\u1eaby \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00e1c ti\u1ec7m h\u1ed9t xo\u00e0n n\u1eef trang \u0111\u00e8n s\u00e1ng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i\u2026 Ch\u00faa \u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 th\u00ec l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i to l\u1edbn cho n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf bi\u1ebft c\u01a1 man n\u00e0o m\u00e0 k\u1ec3\u2026<\/p>\n

“\u00d4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m \u0111au, \u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdc ng\u00e0 tr\u0103ng sao, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con dao l\u00e0m tim nh\u1ecf m\u00e1u. \u00d4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 d\u1ecbu ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u00eam qua, \u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng \u0111\u00eam nay, \u00f4i \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea7n th\u01a1 say, n\u1ed1t nh\u1ea1c chua cay!<\/em>”<\/p>\n

2002<\/em><\/p>\n