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H\u00f4m nay, hai m\u1eaft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t. Con m\u1eaft th\u1ee9 hai \u0111ang tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t. <\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7n l\u1eefa su\u1ed1t bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua. Hai con m\u1eaft \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7y tinh th\u1ec3 c\u0169 k\u1ef9 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft m\u1edbi – n\u00f3i theo c\u00e1ch vui vui c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i v\u1ed1n hay t\u1ef1 tr\u00eau m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u00f4i vui m\u1eebng l\u1eafm ch\u1ee9. V\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 vui nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u2026 l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t ch\u1eef \u201cl\u1eafm\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n l\u00f2ng, \u201cSao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ea1 v\u1eady.\u201d Nh\u00ecn xa \u0111\u00e3 r\u00f5 h\u01a1n. M\u1ecdi v\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. B\u1ea3ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, r\u1eebng th\u00f4ng, khu nh\u00e0, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0ng xe tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t th\u00e2n quen\u2026 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lau s\u1ea1ch m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp b\u1ee5i m\u1edd m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lau s\u1ea1ch trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. <\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1 thay\u2026<\/p>\n

Trong l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ean. C\u00f3 ch\u00fat vui vui. C\u00f3 ch\u00fat bu\u1ed3n bu\u1ed3n. C\u00f3 ch\u00fat xao xuy\u1ebfn\u2026 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 b\u00e2ng khu\u00e2ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd khi \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c – m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, khi m\u1eaft c\u00f2n ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y s\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1eb7c l\u01a1 \u0111\u00e3ng cho n\u00f3 tho\u00e1ng qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng \u0111i qua, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng hay s\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u!<\/p>\n

Trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t vang l\u00ean l\u1eddi ca t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u – B\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c \u201cD\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi tr\u00f4i\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Ng\u1ed3i trong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00eam
\nNghe ti\u1ebfng gi\u00f3 \u0111u\u1ed5i nhau qua th\u1ec1m v\u1eafng
\nC\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng gian \u00e2m tr\u1ea7m v\u1eafng l\u1eb7ng
\nCh\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng r\u1ea3 r\u00edch g\u1ecdi canh th\u00e2u\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u00e1t \u1ea5y trong m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c. H\u00f4m nay, sau khi hai m\u1eaft v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed5 xong, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u00e1t \u1ea5y tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i trong t\u00f4i theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. Khi t\u00f4i nghe ti\u1ebfng gi\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe ti\u1ebfng gi\u00f3. T\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00ecn b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi. T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau quanh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 b\u1ed7ng th\u1ea5y th\u1eddi gian \u0111ang \u00e2m th\u1ea7m \u0111i qua tr\u00ean t\u1eebng khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i xa. Anh em m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau\u2026 sao c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u00f4ng lung qu\u00e1. R\u1ed3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, k\u1ebb c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n t\u00f4i ra \u0111i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1eafm ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 r\u1eddi xa. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00ean trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhau l\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t nghe tin \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p nhau gi\u1eefa cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, gi\u1eadn nhau, c\u00f9ng nhau vui bu\u1ed3n, r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u1ea1i l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd chia tay. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u201ct\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1c d\u1eebng ch\u00e2n ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i?\u201d T\u00f4i thi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

Gi\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng tr\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea5t?
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u sau bao phen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c-thua-c\u00f2n-m\u1ea5t?<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn nhi\u1ec1u khi \u201c\u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eed sinh\u2026 len l\u00e9n th\u1edf d\u00e0i.\u201d<\/em> C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta lu\u00f4n v\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3i. <\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f3c b\u1ea1c. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i th\u1eadt y\u00ean, nghe ti\u1ebfng gi\u00f3 ngo\u00e0i hi\u00ean, nghe ti\u1ebfng c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng g\u1ecdi nhau trong \u0111\u00eam t\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt ra ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i bi\u1ebft bao.<\/p>\n

H\u00f4m nay, t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u00f5 h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 thay, c\u00e0ng nh\u00ecn r\u00f5, t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng cho l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. C\u00e1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i th\u01a1 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft. Nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng nh\u1ea1c m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng h\u00e1t. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c vui m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng c\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, t\u1eebng tranh h\u01a1n thua, t\u1eebng \u0111au l\u00f2ng v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t\u2026 r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau.<\/p>\n

D\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn tr\u00f4i\u2026 kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec ai m\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111i qua nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng d\u00e0i. Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 cho nhau nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00f4i qua \u1ea5y, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ai b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y b\u00e0n tay. M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u0103m. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i nghe m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 khi m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf v\u1ec1\u2026 Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9ng huy\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ta l\u00e0 ai
\nGi\u1eefa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u00f4n v\u1ea1n
\nCha m\u1eb9, anh em, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n
\nCh\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1c d\u1eebng ch\u00e2n gi\u1eefa c\u00f5i t\u1ea1m lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u00f4m nay t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u c\u00e2u \u1ea5y h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ra n\u00f3. B\u1edfi v\u00ec sau bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m \u0111i qua, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 khi c\u00f2n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i l\u1ebd v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e2ng, d\u1eabu v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a. Hay qu\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf. Qu\u00ean g\u1ecdi cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi g\u1eafn b\u00f3 b\u00ean nhau. Qu\u00ean ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Qu\u00ean th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u m\u00f9a h\u1ea1 c\u00f3 gi\u00f3. Qu\u00ean v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i thu sang, hay qu\u00ean nghe m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ca \u01b0a th\u00edch\u2026 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi \u0111i qua m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu nh\u1ecf. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng, \u201c\u0110\u1eebng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y n\u1eefa m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ea7y \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o.\u201d C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do h\u00f4m nay l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i xao xuy\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh ng\u1eafn h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1edfi bu\u1ed3n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, thanh th\u1ea3n h\u01a1n. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Qu\u00fd b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. B\u1edbt h\u01a1n thua m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. B\u1edbt gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng vi\u1ebft th\u00eam v\u00e0i trang h\u1ed3i k\u00fd, l\u00e0m th\u00eam v\u00e0i b\u00e0i th\u01a1, so\u1ea1n th\u00eam v\u00e0i b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c. V\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u00e1ng h\u1ed3ng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 ch\u00e2n m\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c vi\u1ebft n\u1eefa. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c l\u00e0m th\u01a1. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc computer h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng tr\u1eddi cao m\u00e2y tr\u1eafng, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng gi\u00f3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111i ngang qua h\u00e0ng th\u00f4ng\u2026 th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd m\u1edd. \u0110\u00f4i ch\u00e2n r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd ch\u1eadm. B\u00e0n tay r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd run nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u th\u01a1, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u00e1t m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i\u2026 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 sau n\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i kia, \u0111\u00eam v\u1eabn x\u1ea1c x\u00e0o. H\u00e0ng c\u00e2y v\u1eabn nghi\u00eang nghi\u00eang trong gi\u00f3. B\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn ph\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp s\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00eanh mang. D\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd tr\u00f4i, nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vui bu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f2n t\u00f4i, sau l\u1ea7n m\u1ed5 m\u1eaft n\u1ea7y, b\u1ed7ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1edbt khua \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 n\u00edu gi\u1eef qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u1ec9 mong m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 khi \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1t b\u1ee5i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201c\u1eea th\u00f4i\u2026 D\u00f2ng \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn tr\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kingwood, 6\/10\/2026<\/em>
\n<\/br>
\n\"\"<\/a>
\nWhen My Eyes Became Clear Again<\/strong><\/p>\n

Today, both of my eyes have completed their surgeries. The second eye is now recovering well.<\/p>\n

A journey I had been postponing for so many years has finally come to an end. Both eyes have, one after the other, had their old lenses replaced with new ones\u2014or, to put it in the playful way of a many-years-old young man who still likes to make fun of himself, I have been given two \u201cnew eyes.\u201d<\/p>\n

I suppose this should have made me terribly happy. And indeed, I am happy\u2014but somehow, I seem to have lost the word **\u201cterribly.\u201d** I find myself asking, \u201cWhy do I feel so strangely?\u201d My distance vision is clearer now. Everything before me seems to have regained its outlines. Road signs, pine trees, neighborhoods, lines of cars on the road, familiar faces\u2026 all appear as though someone has finally wiped away a layer of haze that I had been unable to clear for a very long time.<\/p>\n

And yet, strangely\u2026<\/p>\n

There is something in my heart that I cannot quite name. A little happiness. A little sadness. A little stirring of emotion\u2026 and I find myself quietly wondering about it. Perhaps when my eyes became clearer, I began to see something else\u2014something that, back when my vision was still covered in mist, I had either deliberately paid little attention to or simply allowed to drift past unnoticed. It is **time**, and it is **human life**. It is the road every one of us must eventually travel, no matter how clear or how clouded our eyes may be.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, the lyrics of a song I wrote some time ago came back to me\u2014my song \u201cThe River of Life Flows On\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Seated in the darkness
\nI listen to the wind chasing itself across the empty porch
\nThe whole space is quiet, solemn, still
\nOnly the ceaseless chirping of insects keeps watch through the long night\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Back then, I wrote those lines in a different state of mind. Today, after both eyes have finally undergone surgery, those same words return to me in a very different way. When I hear the wind, I do not hear only the wind. When I lift my eyes to the sky, I do not merely look at the sky. I look at the people I love around me, and suddenly I can feel time quietly passing across every face.<\/p>\n

\nMy parents are gone. My brothers and sisters are scattered, each with a different personality, a different life, a different fate. Love and affection\u2026 somehow seem so misty and elusive. Then I think of my friends\u2014some still here, others already gone. It is only natural for those older than me to leave this world, yet many much younger have also departed far too soon. There are people who were once very close to me who are now nothing more than names in memory. There are others whom I thought I would be seeing for many more years, only to hear one day, unexpectedly, that they had quietly lain down and left this world.<\/p>\n

People meet in this life, love one another, quarrel, share laughter and sorrow, and then one day quietly part ways. Is it true that \u201cwe are all merely brief stopping places in the middle of a very long river of life\u201d? I honestly do not know. But the longer I live, the less unfamiliar that question becomes.<\/p>\n

Where will the wind go when it has reached the farthest edge of the earth?
\nWhere will we go after so many rounds of winning and losing, gaining and letting go?<\/em><\/p>\n

And yet, so often, \u201cstanding before life and death\u2026 I quietly sigh.\u201d<\/em> Perhaps these are simply the contradictions that human beings are destined to carry within themselves.<\/p>\n

There is no need to wait until old age, nor until our hair has turned gray. Sometimes all it takes is one quiet night, sitting absolutely still, listening to the wind outside the porch, listening to the insects calling to one another in the darkness, and suddenly we realize just how brief this life truly is.<\/p>\n

Today, I can see everything more clearly. And strangely enough, the clearer I see, the smaller I feel in a world I once imagined to be so vast. A world that, one day, will no longer belong to me. The things I once built. The poems I once wrote. The melodies I once sang. The good times I once enjoyed. The things I once grew angry over, the contests of pride and winning and losing, the heartbreaks over what I gained and what I lost\u2026 all of them, eventually, will be left behind.<\/p>\n

The river of life keeps flowing\u2026 it stops for no one. I think of family. I think of those who have walked with me through so many long years. I think of friends, the people who have given one another meetings, stories, and laughter in days that once seemed endless. Perhaps the most precious thing in life is not what we have built or accomplished, but who has been beside us along the way.<\/p>\n

A hand holding another hand. A simple phone call asking how you are. A friend willing to sit and listen while you talk about things that make little sense. A loved one still there when you come home\u2026 The things we once took for granted, at a certain age, suddenly begin to feel almost like a dream.<\/p>\n

Have we ever asked who we truly are
\nAmid the countless human beings in this world?
\nParents, siblings, loved ones, friends
\nOnly brief stopping places in this temporary cycle of existence\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Perhaps today I understand those words better than I did when I first wrote them. Because after all these years, I have seen too many people arrive and then depart. And one day, I too will have to go. But perhaps that is not the most frightening thing. More frightening is to still be alive and yet forget the truth of impermanence. Yes, everything is impermanent\u2014but that should not make us forget love and loyalty, or forget to say a kind word to one another. Forget to call an old friend with whom we once shared so much. Forget to sit beside our loved ones for just a little while longer. Forget to savor a summer afternoon with a passing breeze. Forget the beauty of autumn arriving, or forget to listen to a favorite song\u2026 simply because we assume we still have plenty of time.<\/p>\n

I have just come through a small surgery. And yet I feel as though I have been reminded of something important, \u201cDo not wait until you can no longer see before regretting how beautiful this world is.\u201d Perhaps that is why my heart feels so strangely stirred today.<\/p>\n

My eyes are clearer now, but I can also see that the years I have left are shorter than they once seemed. I do not want to be sad about that. Sadness will not make time stand still. I only want to live the days that remain a little more gently, a little more peacefully. To love my family a little more. To cherish my friends a little more. To care a little less about winning and losing. To hold on to fewer grudges. To sit down and write a few more pages of memoir, compose a few more poems, create a few more songs. And whenever the opportunity comes, to sit quietly and watch an evening sky glowing with crimson light along the horizon.<\/p>\n

Perhaps one day I will no longer have the strength to write. No longer the strength to make poetry. No longer the strength to sit at the computer for hours. But if, even then, I do not forget the people I love, if I can still smile at a morning beneath a high blue sky scattered with white clouds, if I can still hear the gentle wind passing through the pine trees\u2026 then perhaps I will have lived a life that was, after all, whole and complete.<\/p>\n

The eyes will eventually grow dim. The legs will eventually grow slow. The hands will eventually tremble. But human affection, beautiful memories, the poems we have written, the songs we have left behind\u2026 perhaps they may remain, somewhere, with someone who remembers.<\/p>\n

Outside, the night is still rustling. The trees still lean softly in the wind. The sky is still wrapped in an endless veil of mist. The river of life continues to flow quietly, as though it has never known anything about the joys and sorrows of a human life. And I, after this eye surgery, suddenly feel that I can now see more clearly a world that seems a little quieter, a little less turbulent\u2014and, somehow, I can also see myself more clearly.<\/p>\n

Perhaps from now on, I will no longer try so hard to hold on to everything. I only hope that, for each day I have left, I can see a little more clearly, love people a little more, and live a little more slowly\u2026 so that when the day finally comes to return to dust, I can smile and say, \u201cAh, well\u2026 the river of life keeps flowing.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kingwood, October 6, 2026<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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