{"id":19487,"date":"2026-08-03T07:00:20","date_gmt":"2026-08-03T13:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/?p=19487"},"modified":"2026-08-02T17:54:23","modified_gmt":"2026-08-02T23:54:23","slug":"tam-biet-thang-bay-farewell-july","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/?p=19487","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ea1m Bi\u1ec7t Th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y – Farewell, July"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bao th\u00e1ng kh\u00e1c trong n\u0103m. Ba m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u0111i qua, m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn m\u1ecdc m\u1ed7i s\u1edbm, ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n v\u1eabn bu\u00f4ng m\u1ed7i chi\u1ec1u. Ng\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y trong l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e1 ch\u00edn tr\u00ean c\u00e2y. V\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao, n\u0103m nay \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e1ng, l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i b\u00e2ng khu\u00e2ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, “\u0110\u00e3 h\u1ebft th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y r\u1ed3i sao? M\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0…”<\/p>\n

\u201cM\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0\u2026\u201d C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e2u l\u00e2u l\u1ea1i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i. M\u1edbi l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3n n\u0103m m\u1edbi, m\u00f9a m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, v\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edbp m\u1eaft, th\u00eam m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng h\u01a1n n\u1eeda n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi gian v\u1ed1n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng \u1ed3n \u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i v\u00e3, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n \u0111i qua, mang theo tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, mang theo nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi, mang theo nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 mang theo nh\u1eefng m\u00f9a H\u1ea1 ch\u00e1y b\u1ecfng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea1 l\u1eafm! Th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua nhanh \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea3ng th\u1ed1t. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m th\u00e1ng t\u1edbi, sao l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y xa v\u1eddi v\u1ee3i, nh\u01b0 c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i h\u1ebft hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn hai vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 hai \u0111\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p Trung h\u1ecdc, \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc\u2026 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 vui m\u1eebng, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u con!<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u00e2ng khu\u00e2ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y qua v\u1ed9i m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra… \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111ang ng\u1eafn d\u1ea7n theo t\u1eebng t\u1edd l\u1ecbch.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfm th\u1eddi gian b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f9a H\u00e8 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn, nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf, nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00e0ng l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng m\u00f9a H\u00e8 \u0111\u00e3 qua, v\u1ea9n v\u01a1 t\u1eebng m\u00f9a Thu v\u00e0ng l\u00e1, nh\u1edb th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t, ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m xa v\u1eddi trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111ang lo s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1eafm m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u v\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ec3 nghe ti\u1ebfng ve cu\u1ed1i m\u00f9a, \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169, hay \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u00f2n ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng. Ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 v\u1eady th\u00f4i l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ed3i h\u1ed3i!<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t nh\u00e9, th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 gh\u00e9 qua \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y sang n\u0103m c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, mong r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee7 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y… d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng bi\u1ebft bao.<\/p>\n

D\u1eabu th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn mong gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong tim m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u1eafng, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat gi\u00f3, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat bi\u1ebft \u01a1n… cho m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u2026V\u00e0, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd\u2026 Xin ch\u00e0o Th\u00e1ng T\u00e1m.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1ng T\u00e1m \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ec1… Bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mong th\u1eddi gian ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee7 an b\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 vui s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00f3n r\u00e9n c\u00f9ng \u0111i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian th\u00eam m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t h\u1eb9n \u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o th\u00eam.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1ng 8\/2026<\/em>
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Farewell, July<\/strong><\/p>\n

July is, after all, no different from any other month of the year. Thirty-one quiet days come and go. The sun still rises each morning, and evening still lays its golden light upon the horizon. One day quietly follows another, while life itself has reached that season when the leaves have ripened on the branches.<\/p>\n

Yet somehow, on this final day of July, I find myself whispering with a touch of wistfulness,<\/p>\n

“Is July already over? It feels like only yesterday…”<\/p>\n

“Only yesterday…”<\/p>\n

That phrase escapes my lips every now and then, almost unconsciously\u2014a quiet reflex of someone who has traveled far enough through life to measure time differently. It seems as though we only just welcomed a new year, a new season. Yet in the blink of an eye, another month has slipped away, and more than half the year has quietly folded into memory.<\/p>\n

Time itself is invisible, yet there are moments when I can almost hear its footsteps. Never hurried, never loud, it simply keeps moving, carrying away our youth, the dreams that once seemed endless, beloved family and cherished friends, and those radiant summers that will never return.<\/p>\n

Strange, isn’t it?<\/p>\n

Time passes so swiftly that it leaves me astonished. And yet, when I think about the months and years still ahead, they seem impossibly distant\u2014as though they lie beyond a road so long that I cannot know whether I will have enough time to walk its entire length.<\/p>\n

That feeling grows even stronger whenever I think of the two little treasures of my life \u2014 my beloved grandchildren. I wonder if I will still be here to watch them graduate from high school, then college… to celebrate their achievements, to feel that quiet pride only a grandparent can know.<\/p>\n

Perhaps what makes us wistful is not that another month has passed, but the sudden realization that our own lives are growing shorter with every page we tear from the calendar.<\/p>\n

When we are young, we measure time by the summers yet to come, by unfinished dreams, and by all the roads still waiting to be explored.<\/p>\n

As we grow older, however, we begin counting the summers already gone. We find ourselves lingering over autumn leaves drifting in the wind, missing those who are no longer with us, and revisiting memories that have become more precious with every passing year.<\/p>\n

I do not know exactly what I fear.<\/p>\n

Perhaps it is nothing more than the quiet awareness that the time remaining to me is no longer as generous as it once seemed.<\/p>\n

None of us knows how many more golden afternoons we will have… how many more times we will hear the cicadas singing at summer’s end… how many opportunities remain to call an old friend… or finally find the courage to tell someone we love the words we have carried silently in our hearts for so long.<\/p>\n

The thought alone is enough to stir something deep within me.<\/p>\n

So farewell, July.<\/p>\n

Thank you for visiting my life once again.<\/p>\n

And if we should meet again next year, I hope I will still have enough peace to smile, enough strength to keep walking, and enough love in my heart to realize once more how wonderfully beautiful this life truly is.<\/p>\n

No matter how hurried time may become, I hope I can always keep within my heart a little sunshine, a gentle breeze, and above all, a grateful spirit for every single day I am still blessed to be here.<\/p>\n

And now…<\/p>\n

Welcome, August.<\/p>\n

August has arrived.<\/p>\n

I know it is useless to wish that time would slow down.<\/p>\n

Instead, I simply hope my heart will remain peaceful and light enough to embrace each new day, to walk quietly beside time for whatever distance still lies ahead, asking for nothing more, making no promises of tomorrow, and only cherishing the grace of being allowed to continue the journey.<\/p>\n

Aug 2026<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Th\u00e1ng B\u1ea3y c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bao th\u00e1ng kh\u00e1c trong n\u0103m. Ba m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u0111i qua, m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn m\u1ecdc m\u1ed7i s\u1edbm, ho\u00e0ng h\u00f4n v\u1eabn bu\u00f4ng m\u1ed7i chi\u1ec1u. Ng\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y trong l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e1 ch\u00edn tr\u00ean c\u00e2y. V\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao, n\u0103m nay […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,17],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19487"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19487"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19487\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19495,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19487\/revisions\/19495"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thovanyenson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}